Falling in Love is easy but making it ever lasting is easier just need bit of passion.

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Love is easy but staying in love and making the relationship everlasting is much easier… You just need , the desire to be with that special one.

In all these years, I have learnt one thing in relationship , falling in love is easy but then staying in love with that old beautiful happy spark is easier too. If you have the connection with your partner. Relationship isn’t a one way it’s always two way . you and your partner both should be willing to make it work , make it ever- Sparky , ever passionate.

It’s said its not easy to stay happy in a relationship with that person forever. Did you ever thought why isn’t it  ?? Because you started taking the relationship as a usual thing , you don’t give the importance to your partner as you did in the beginning. And you expect him to do so. You don’t get involved in the conversation interestingly , you both do talk but you never give attention as you did in the beginning.
You don’t make efforts to make them feel special , lucky. You stop doing things you did before to make them happy. You stop going out for a romantic date together.

Then how can you expect that your relationship will stay ever happy , ever loving the way it was in the beginning. I agree that it requires efforts from both the sides. At least you play your role efficiently.

One of the most important thing to make a relationship happy going forever is COMMUNICATION.
couple should be like best friends , sharing everything and anything , transparency should be there in a bond like this. When you share everything the way it is.

Second importantly is Trust , once you loose trust you can’t get it again as it said once the crack in the mirror or glass can’t be mend. The same way is about Trust. Honesty and loyalty is also strong pillars in a relationship. Until unless there isn’t honesty , though you put 100% efforts you’ll not be completely satisfied with it. Man is only loyal if he actually loves the women by true heart and the women makes him happy always.  But after a while women have a tendency of nagging their boyfriends or husbands so much even in the things he isn’t responsible for , blaming each other. Then , Your man start seeing you as a trouble maker , as a annoying person , and then the man start seeking happiness outside the relationship and he cheats .

If someone cheat or go out of the relationship is only when he or she wants happiness and its not getting from he or she is right now. Somewhere you are responsible for his or her acts.

So , the questions arises again what makes a relationship loving and happy ever after.

I’m in a relationship from last 7 years and in a happy , loving and compassionate one. Will share some more  wonderful secrets.

(Blog To be continued….. )

Published by The Eternal Sunshine

I'm a #Psychologist, #Life #Coach, #Relationship Advisor, a #Councellor, #Motivational Speaker, Writer, Blogger, Fashion Designer, Fashion Stylist and a Fitness Motivator. I'm also someone who wants to make this world a better place. ❤️ As a Person I'm a girl full of wonderful Dreams & make efforts to achieve them too.. Full of Positivity and liveliness. I'm here to share my views, and express my experience with all the wonderful people , around the world. And looking forward for lot many beautiful things ahead in life. Thanks Stay Blessed and Smiling always.

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